Archery Isn't Just for Jared Anymore

Amber and Titus needed something to do.  With Jared's blessing, I suggested they give archery a try.  So back on October 25th Amber and Titus had their first private archery lesson.  They both did amazing, they took too it rather naturally, so they started group classes right away.

They had no trouble shooting enough points to earn their first JOAD pins during November group classes.

December was the same, they scored 185/210 respectively more than enough for their second JOAD pins.

With two pins under their belts we went ahead and got them their own gear.  It's really neat having three of kids in the same sport.  I love archery because it is such a peaceful sport to watch and oh it also involves numbers and I love numbers.

Christmas Visitation

It was on the calendar as simply "Asheboro Pickup" for weeks. The kids (Titus in particular) kept trying to get more clarity about the calendar entry but Chris and I successful kept the secret.  When we were heading out the door and someone started to panic about being late and I said "they can't start without us" and the kids were officially confused.

On our way we saw an incredible Christmas light display in the middle of no where, which was a fun treat.  Chris used the opportunity to joke "That's it, let's go home".

When we got to our destination, Lance immediately sighted Grandma Elaine in the lobby, the rest of the kids piled out after him with joyous exclamations.  Then we all piled into the car to go eat some dinner.

I had found a place it eat in downtown called "Cantina Taco Loco", it had a little something for everyone.  It was a bit small, so they took Chris' number till they had a table for a group our size.  We spent the time catching up and window shopping (It's a cute downtown).

At the table Grandma interviewed the kids about all that was going on in their lives, while we enjoyed a really nice meal.

After dinner we walked around looking at lights a bit, it was a beautiful night but eventually had to head back.  Everyone was sorry to part but also thankful for having the time together.

 

Thanksgiving Celebration - Advent Begins

The kids had a lot of fun putting up lights this year.

On actual Thanksgiving Day Titus and Chris broke out the tiller to turn over the vegetable garden (Chris wants lots of ghost pepper next year), Lance (with the help of the neighbors) covered the bed in wood chips and then all the kids played wiffle ball in the court, while Chis and I baked pumpkin pies inside for "Thanksgiving Day Observed".  It was a great day.

The M-Family arrived early on "Thanksgiving Day Observed" to play an airsoft version of Bang in the yard.  While we adults prepared the meal inside.  The grandparents came over around 4pm and we sat down to enjoy a wonderful feast and fellowship.  Between the meal and desert the adults enjoyed lively conversation while the kids played the card version of Bang in the bonus room (do you see a trend here).  We think this is the 5th time we have celebrated Thanksgiving with the M-Family.  When I invited them this year I said "You have to come, its tradition", to which their oldest son said "You know what? She's right. We do have to come".  What blessing good friends are.

We had great plans for productivity on Saturday but TLC (Turkey Left-over Como) had us rethink that idea, so we decided to just have fun together playing games, looking for a Christmas tree (on Nextdoor), etc.

Sunday, was the first Sunday of Advent.  We surprised the kids with a new game "Taco, Cat, Goat, Cheese, Pizza", a wonderful fun and slightly violent card game.  I assume they like the game as they've been playing it a couple times a day ever since.  I have games lined up for the remainder of Sunday Advents (7 Wonders, Tsuro, and El Dorado), as well to go along with our traditional movies of Advent.

My grain mill arrived last night so now we can officially make our bread completely from scratch, what a difference it made in the first loaf.  Last night was also my last Gateway 1 class, I found a kindred spirit in Joette and I felt encouraged and empowered to keep learning more so I can take complete control of my family's health.  It's truly been a week of many thanksgivings.

The Great Room Migration

Back on September 14th we took a leap of faith.  We believed if we removed a hallway closet, we could punch through the back of our master closet to make a passage way to the third floor stairs.  

You see the original entrance to the third floor stairs was through the master bedroom and the master closet, not exactly convenient for anything but I suppose a master suite retreat (which is not where Chris and I like to spend our resources).  We had talked to multiple contractors over the years, one wanted to remove the whole side of the house to fix the problem but we believed there had to be an easier and cheaper answer to the solutions they proposed.

So Wayne took down the wall, the opening was big enough (just like my tape drawing - that apparently only made sense to me - showed).  I was also convinced based on our investigation that the wall was not load bearing, which was confirmed and documented by an engineer a few days later (a little out of order but it worked out).

The next two months were a bit hectic to say the least.  To save money I acted as the general contractor coordinating contractors, electricians, HVAC, carpet people etc.  Additionally, we did some of the work ourselves, bought all the supplies ourselves (with the help of friends to pick them up and get them upstairs), boys served as free labor to Wayne the contractor, we cleaned out lots of old stuff (trash, give away and sale) and bought new-to-us furniture, (ie Craigslist deals) and rearranged a lot of furniture throughout the house to be better utilized.  It was stressful, time-consuming and worth all the effort.

Jared's new studio is awesome!  Chris says it's the most peaceful room in the house.   Moving from 111sq ft. to 425sq ft. is a huge change.  J-Rod Studios and its founder are flourishing in their new space.  One of the unintended benefits is that he can now film during the day instead of staying up all hours of the night; instead he can sleep "like a starfish".  Having the new table and chairs, not only helps with filming but also with playing Memoir '44 with family and friends; another bonus.

Lance had never painted his old room and since he now moved into Jared's room (the only completely decorated bedroom in the house; as it originally served as a guest room) he got out of ever having to do so.  His new bed (He'd only had a mattress before) has lots of neat secret storage so he doesn't need a dresser.  He added legs to his diorama so that it didn't have to take up desk space.  He's very pleased with his new abode.

Amber and Titus have been sharing a room for the last four years.  Needing to separate them was a big part of the push to get this project done.  They both need space and frankly its just time.  Titus agreed to take Lance's old room (smaller than their current room) if he could paint it any color he wanted.  We agreed and he painted it all himself.  I would have never chose the color but I absolutely love it because its so Titus.  I also found a really cute desk for him to have in the room.  He loves having all this projects on display, even if it means he can't blame the mess on his sister anymore ;-)

My reason for bribing Titus to take the smaller room is that as a girl Amber was going to need the walk-in closet for all her dresses.  The thought that he'd still have to share the closet if he kept their current room helped motivate him to switch as well.

Amber is finally sleeping in the cheery sleigh bed I bought her before she was born, because all little girls need a sleigh bed.  Jared had been using it in his old room in recent years and it had served as a guest bed/ daddy needs sleep bed before that.  

I found an incredible glass display case for a steal (GP Frank helped up pick up a lot of the new/used furniture over the weeks and I think he got a big kick out of what little we paid for some of the pieces) so now Amber's china dolls are safely on display.  Her and her friend Kathryn arranged them in a "special scene".  The final touch was an incredible Arts and Crafts desk someone was practically giving away, its so big and sturdy.  I made a decision I don't want to bring into my house any "normal" pieces, I want everything we have to be as unique as us.  We had originally talked about painting Amber's room but we ran out of steam and had to put that plan on hold (along with painting our room, the landing and the hallway) so that we could all just settle in for a bit.

Our old closet area is now called "The Landing" I found a free desk that fit into the niche just perfect so for now its a work area, with storage for extra schooling materials.

The door from the master room to "The Landing" was drywalled close.  This let one last issue to solve... we no longer had a master closet.  During the construction we had our clothes hanging on a temporary clothing rack but that wasn't going to work long-term.  After much thinking/dreaming we finally decided to remove the tub and mini-closet in the master bath and turn the area into a reach-in closet.  We had never used the tub for anything but drying clothes (now that Jared's clothes were out of the linen closet I had plenty of room to do that by the washer dryer).  Chris and Lance removed the cast iron tub (it was too heavy for our contractor) in fact when they did they saw it stamped at 285lbs!!!  It sat in the front yard for a bit (we had ideas of spray painting it and using it for a planter) but in the end I got a scrap metal guy to remove it for free.  Though the great room migration had been done for a few weeks, today Chris had the time to put in the closet organizer.  Its so nice having all our clothes together again in a closet and I really like having it across from the bath sinks (the shower and toilet are in a separate room).

Side moves of the great room migration included a revamp of furniture from other parts of the house into the school room, the family room and bonus room making them all more functional and aesthetically pleasing.

My friend helped me with painting the master bath and I hope to finish painting the hallway, our room and landing over the holiday break but for now things are settled.  The house is much more at peace and I'm terribly pleased with all that we accomplished.

Happy 25th Anniversary to us!

 

Looking Amazing!

 

Here people are "looking amazing" during out exploration of the "Mountain to the Sea" trail Amber and I found earlier this year while the boys were being Grease Monkeys.  We had wanted to take the whole family for a while and today was the day.  Lance and Titus are missing from the photo because they came prepared to go fishing and went off the main trail about half-way through to do so.  We caught up with them on our return trip, they however caught nothing.

It was a really beautiful trail with lots of elevation changes and different trees showing off an awesome variety of colors.  We'll have to come back again.

Warbirds with Eugene and Friends

(Written by Jared)

"Warbirds over Monroe" is the Historical Airshow that comes to Monroe, NC every year. The airshow didn't happen in 2020 (for obvious reasons) but it was back this year! What made this year even more special was William, a good friend of mine, was able to come with us this year!

After getting our front row seats (advantage of coming early) we explored the different planes. IT WAS COLD!!! We all were shivering, except William who came perfectly prepared with his layers, scarf, and hat.

This year there were different planes from last time. The majority of planes were trainer versions of the Douglas Dauntless Dive Bomber, and A TON of P-51 Mustangs. William and I being WW2 lovers, this was very special. One disappointment was the "Memphis Belle" B-17 Bomber was not there this year. The Bomber was too expensive to keep with the airshow, but we were glad to hear that it is safe and sound in a museum.

I was also able to purchase sketches of General Patton and Field Marshal Rommel, two of the best Field Commanders in history! It was a great find!

As we walked around looking at the different planes, a squad of German Soldiers (reenactors) walked towards us. William and I walked over to them. As a joke, I said, "Is the Third Reich planning on expanding anytime soon?" Without hesitation, one of the soldiers responded "Well, Czechoslovakia went pretty well." And another chimed in, "I think Poland is next." We all had a good laugh and then started talking about the different clothing and equipment they were featuring. We were even able to take pictures with the "German Officer" who let us hold his MP40 Sub Machine Gun.

We turned to our right and saw a whole camp of different WWII, Vietnam, and even Modern reenactors. The first camp was a WWII American camp. They had a lot of small arms, and a WWII Jeep with a .50 caliber machine gun! We were even able to go onto the bed and touch the gun! One of the reenactors gave us strips of cloth to help camouflage the tent. One of the other tents was a Vietnam era camp. Interesting thing about this was the weapons were disguised airsoft guns! They said it was a lot cheaper than getting the real ones! The other camps included the German and British camps.

By that point we needed to run back to our seats, and we had root beer and food waiting for us when the airshow began!

The first planes were solo flights of the heavier planes. All of these were propeller, and the sound was deafening! Hearing all those engines with the low passes was an indescribable experience. Next was the only jet plane there, a soviet jet that was MUCH FASTER but much less exciting. There's just something about propeller planes that will always be special. While the jet engine was in the air, the WWII planes also took off. It was so much fun watching all the Mustangs flying together.

The next 3 performances were the best! The first one was a stunt helicopter, the same from the previous show and just as impressive! The second was a group of synchronized stunt planes. Each pass they made, they created a different shape. The third and final was the stunt plane with a smoke trail. What we weren't expecting was the ROCKET CAR to come out onto the runway! The plane and rocket car had two races, each one taking a victory. The stunt plane finished it off by flying upside down through a streamer!

The final performance was the warbirds' strafing runs. ALL the warbirds made passes and TNT already on the ground made it look like they were dropping bombs! Finally they all grouped together for the missing man flight formation. As the crowd remained deathly silent, all the planes flew in formation, then one of them flew into the distance, commemorating all the brave airmen who didn't come home.

And then, THE WALL OF FIRE!!! Lance was prepared this time, as last time he was in the bathroom when it happened and the blast almost knocked over his porta-potty. The blast was EVEN BIGGER this year! It felt like we were having our faces burnt off!

With that, the airshow was over. As we all drove home we related our favorite experiences; one thing we all agreed on, we need to go back!

They Won the Pennant!

Well, okay not actually the Pennant.... but Titus' team did go undefeated and they were the best team in their age group in the Cary Rec League.

Titus played Cary Rec this Fall and it was an awesome experience; great kids, great coaching and most importantly it finally got Titus back on a baseball field (first time since fall 2019).  He played primarily catcher because frankly he was the best.  However, on the last game of the year, as a sign of appreciation for playing catcher so much, Coach had Titus play pitcher and short stop.  Chris and Lance think he's a natural short stop, next time around we just have to it keep to ourselves he's also a great catcher (wink, wink).

All About Amber

Amber has wanted to ride horses well..... for as long as she knew they were horses not big dogs.  The desire to ride horses seems to be in a girls DNA and Amber is no exception.  Therefore, Amber decided to stop dance and give riding a try.  

Her first lesson was on October 9th (early B-Day present).  She rode a horse named Willie and she rode western.  It was a rainy day but that didn't phase her at all she was all excitement and has been every lesson since.

She has been learning to cook lately as well and one of her first projects was a fall favorite - Pumpkin Pie.  However, on her birthday the cooking was all left to us.  Her favorite breakfast restaurant closed, so we did our best to recreate the pancakes they make at home on her birthday.

 

Then later in the evening we had Holly, Mary and Frank over for the required Spice Cake, Birthday Cake.

The final part of her birthday celebration came today when we went to the NC Zoo with friends.  Amber loves going to the zoo and its always even better with friends.

All in all, I think she had a marvelous birthday celebration this year.  Amber is growing more beautiful inside and out each and every year and we all cherish her.

Dancing in the Rain

 ....and every other kind of weather.

It is really nice now that Lance can drive Jared and himself to Tuesday night dance, and it gives them a sense of freedom/independence as well.  

Tonight we all got to go dancing as it was the Harvest Dance at The Barn.  The kids had a marvelous time as usual, staying till the very last dance.  So thankful they have all learned to enjoy dancing.

Vrooom Vroooom

This weekend was the boys annual trip up to the Virginia International Raceway for the Michelin GT Challenge Series; an event they all look forward to each year.  Thankfully, its only a two hour drive from our house, which makes a nice day trip.  Due to the Le Mans moving their date, the event took place in October instead of August this year. This was a happy change as the weather was much cooler, though it started a bit wet.

Each boy has a type of car they prefer.  Lance is there to drool over all the Porsches.

Jared prefers to oogle the Corvettes with his father.  It was an incredibly exciting year for them as this was the first year they revealed the C8.R (see at top of page).  However, he is also very partial to the Lambroghinis.

Titus on the other hand is usually there for American Muscle, but there weren't any this year so he focused on Acura.

In the end, Corvette was the winner of the day in the GTLM class and Porsche blew out the GTD class.

Amber and I also look forward to this day, as special day of girl time.  We watched girl movies and did girl stuff.  Great day for the whole family.

End of a Season

Sometimes baseball is a dirty business, both literally and figuratively.  This is Lance's second year playing for Canes. This summer didn't start out as well as the previous year but that all changed when he spent a week playing on a select team in the PBR 17U National Showcase outside Atlanta, Georgia.  Here he was reunited with the team mates he loved best from Captials last year and in the process earned the respect of his teammates from the current year that were on the team as well.  The National coach and assistant coach absolutely loved Lance, his attitude, skill and versatility.  As a bonus we actually got to watch him play, as it was all televised.

Once the summer season ended, he was invited to play in two fall showcase events with the National team and one last Scout Cast yesterday.  Then it was lights out on Lance's travel ball career.

Its a bitter sweet time.  I think Chris will really miss being his concierge service on the road.  However, as he works and we pray, we know that even greater baseball experiences await him in the future.

HH Fall 2021

This is the beauty that makes us return time and time again.  I believe this is our sixth trip with the kids to the island.  We do things pretty much the same every trip because frankly we like it that way, so rather than a day by day post I'm going to let everyone tell in their own words their favorite parts of vacation.

Lance said, "I liked it when Titus caught the shark (the largest they'd ever caught on the island) and seeing the shark feeding frenzy."  I like watching him fish alone and with his siblings.  He even let me take a turn for a while, much to the amusement of the rest of the family (like when I casted wrong once).

Chris said, "I like the kids finding the sand dollars and playing bocce ball." We had picked up the game from Miss Beth this week.

 
Titus said," I liked playing bocce ball, eating food, catching a shark and going to the beach three times a day and going deep."  Titus was the first to find the sand dollars this time and then they kept finding them all week.  It had been a long time since we found sand dollars there.  One day the kids completely buried him the sand, much to his amusement (see video).  He brought his remote control paper airplane to the park, which was great entertainment, that is till it got stuck on the roof of a building.  Thanks to a team effort (including Miss Beth loaning us the the tools) we successful retrieved the plane without harm to the plane or the persons involved in the rescue.

Jared said, "I liked building my tank battle sandcastle, legendary golf and bocce ball."  I enjoyed our walk and talks along the beach and the humor he instigated back at the condo with the bottle blowing game (see video here). I also enjoyed watching him play "Marvin" with all the kids on the Pirate Ship.

Holly said, "I liked seeing the starfish, visiting maverick, seeing the Milky Way and the shooting stars."  Holly and I even created a new song to go with playing Jenga, dance and all...."Tumble, Baby...Tumble Baby".

Amber said, "My favorite parts were going to Beth's,  the Beach, finding sandollars, seeing the Milky Way and finding the sand flea and starfish."  I enjoyed helping her find the Sand Flea (a type of crab).  When I was little it was one of my main occupations at the beach, brought back some good memories. 

We had a lot of fun seeing lots of different animals this time.

This trip we noticed that all the cute little sandpipers runaway on one leg and Titus and Amber tried to befriend them.  

Thankfully there were NO stinging jellies this fall but were a lot of stingrays, possibly due to the exceptionally calm ocean or the fishing trollers that were right off the coast. 

We walked farther down the beach than ever before, a full mile from the walkway. All in all, another awesome and renewing vacation on the island.  Can't wait to come back!